Here's your guide to perfecting the follow-up:
You applied for the job and now want to check on the hiring process and your materials.
Reach out to your contact, if you have one. Ideally, you had a contact inside the organization through whom you learned about the job, says Jenny Foss, founder of the career blog JobJenny.com. In that case, email him or her to ask about the hiring progress. Foss points out that something unrelated to hiring – a conference, project or vacation – could prevent you and other candidates from hearing back about the job for a month. That kind of inside intel will ease anxieties and (maybe) stop you from checking your email every other minute.
Contact human resources or the hiring manager. Foss says that for larger companies, candidates should track down someone in human resources who is involved in hiring for your prospective department. An email or phone call would do, she says, to get an idea of the hiring timeline.
Say you applied to a smaller company, or to an actual person. Mary Ellen Slayter, Monster's career advice expert and founder of the marketing company Reputation Capital Media Services, suggests emailing that week to say something along the lines of, “I sent over my résumé and wanted to know if you have any questions. I’m very interested in the position.” Foss adds that in emails, you should always thank this person for his or her time in responding to you.
Email a few – not 10 – more times. “It’s a fine line between being assertive and being a stalker,” Slayter says of following up. After that initial email, she says, “up to three messages spread over a period of weeks or months is totally reasonable.”
No word after those messages? Slayter likens the interaction to dating and says to take a hint and “lay off.” “What you don’t want to be is that person who applies for a job on the website, then sends emails over and over and over again and clogs up the system,” she says. “You think it’s showing that you have an initiative, but that level of persistence is actually not attractive.”
Your following up paid off, and you landed an interview! Now that you’ve met with the team, reach out again to send a thank you.
Follow up fast – like now. Foss advocates for emailing the interviewers as soon as you can, as in, from the parking lot of the employer if you have your laptop and a wireless connection. "Thank yous matter a lot, and I think it's unexpectedly impressive if, an hour after you left the building, they've got a thank-you note that's genuine and specific sitting right in front of their face," she says.
Email every person with whom you interviewed. Say you meet with four interviewers. You need to send four emails. “Each of those people is going to have some say-so in whether or not you get the job,” Slayter says. “Those are also the same people who – if you don’t get the job – will know about other jobs within the company.”
Individualize each email. A mass “thanks for your time” message won’t cut it. Copying, pasting and sending the same email to each person won’t impress anyone, either.
Foss and Slayter each stress the importance of sending an individualized email to every person, so be sure to take notes on everyone and grab business cards after the interview.
In each email, thank the interviewer for his or her time, Slayter says, and then “add value and move the conversation forward.” Say you and this person spoke about the company’s venture into search-optimizing its website. Mention this conversation, and point to an example of your experience with that topic. As for length, Slayter suggests keeping the message to a paragraph or two.
Consider sending a snail mail thank-you note, too. Experts vary in their opinions on handwritten notes. Archaic or charming? Depends on whom you ask. Diane Gottsman, a national etiquette expert and owner of The Protocol School of Texas, recommends sending an email and then a paper note. Of the latter, she says, "I don't think it's outdated at all. I think it sets you apart."
Slayter and Foss are of the camp that the individualized message and quick delivery of an email typically trump cards, which are well-meaning but sometimes impractical.
Consider the timing of the hiring decision. If the interviewer says he or she will make a decision within a week, your thoughtful card may still be in transit come D Day. As Slayter puts it: “I don’t work at the speed of the U.S. Postal Service.”