SELF
IMPROVEMENT POWER
If
one hates changes I have one line for you
Change
will happen, like it or hate it.
This
article will guide you how to welcome changes
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When we look at a certain object, a painting for
example – we won’t be able to appreciate what’s in it, what is painted and what
else goes with it if the painting is just an inch away from our face. But if we
try to take it a little further, we’ll have a clearer vision of the whole art
work.
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We reach a point in our life when we are ready for
change and a whole bunch of information that will help us unlock our self
improvement power. Until then, something can be staring us right under our nose
but we don’t see it. The only time we
think of unlocking our self improvement power is when everything got worst.
Take the frog principle for example –
Try placing Frog A in a pot of boiling water. What
happens? He twerps! He jumps off!
Why?
Because he is not able to tolerate sudden change in
his environment – the water’s temperature. Then try Frog B: place him in Luke
warm water, and then turn the gas stove on. Wait till the water reaches a
certain boiling point. Frog B then thinks “Ooh… it’s a bit warm in here”.
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People are like
Frog in general. Today, Anna thinks Carl hates her. Tomorrow, Patrick walks
up to her and told her he hates her. Anna stays the same and doesn’t mind what
her friends say. The next day, she learned that Kim and John also abhor her.
Anna doesn’t realize at once the importance and the need for self improvement
until the entire community hates her.
We learn our lessons when we experience pain. We
finally see the warning signs and signals when things get rough and tough.
When do we realize that we need to change
diets? When none of our jeans and shirts would fit us.
When do we stop eating candies and
chocolates?
When
all of our teeth have fallen off.
When
do we realize that we need to stop smoking? When our lungs have gone bad.
When
do we pray and ask for help? When we realize that we’re goanna die tomorrow.
The only time most of us ever learn about unlocking
our self improvement power is when the whole world is crashing and falling
apart. We think and feel this way because it is not easy to change. But change becomes more painful when we ignore
it.
improvement
Change
will happen, like it or hate it. At one point or
another, we are all going to experience different turning points in our life –
and we are all going to eventually unlock our self improvement power not
because the world says so, not because our friends are nagging us, but because
we realized it’s for our own good.
Happy people don’t just accept change, they embrace
it. Now, you don’t have to feel a tremendous heat before realizing the need for
self improvement. Unlocking you improvement power means unlocking yourself up in the cage of thought that “it’s
just the way I am”. It is such a poor excuse for people who fear and resist
change. Most of us program our minds like computers.
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Jen repeatedly tells everyone that she doesn't have
the guts to be around groups of people. She heard her mom, her dad, her sister,
her teacher tells the same things about her to other people. Over the years,
that is what Jen believes. She believes it’s her story. And what happens? Every
time a great crowd would troop over their house, in school, and in the
community – she tends to step back, shy away and lock herself up in a room. Jen
didn’t only believed in her story, she lived it.
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Jen
has to realize that she is not what she is in her story.
Instead of having her story post around her face for everyone to remember, she
has to have the spirit and show people “I am an important person and I should
be treated accordingly!”
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Self improvement may not be everybody’s favorite word, but if we look at things in a different point of view, we might have
greater chances of enjoying the whole process instead of counting the days
until we are fully improved. Three sessions
in a week at the gym would result to a
you are enjoying the whole
process of unlocking yourself improvement power, you’ll realize that you’re
beginning to take things light and become happy.
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